I could have written this exact article five years ago! We had a few moments since then, when we thought through what our lives would look like with children, but each time we knew we would come to regret having them. We got a vasectomy last year and have never been happier!

Author of a newsletter about writing (and other things) called The Novelleist. About to release my novel via Substack. Subscribe at ellegriffin.substack.com.

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